It’s Better to be the Empress Dowager

My Thoughts on It’s Better to be the Empress Dowager

"It's Better to be the Empress Dowager" is a historical romance that definitely took me on a ride. It's a story where Tang Shishi, armed with a prophetic book, tries to avoid her cannon fodder fate and ends up charming the wrong person – or perhaps the right one? It's a bit of a mixed bag, but overall, I found it an enjoyable and unique read.

First Impressions

The premise is definitely intriguing. Tang Shishi discovering her role as a minor character in a book and trying to change her destiny? That's a hook. I was expecting a clever, scheming protagonist, but what I got was... something else entirely. It seems the book isn't a perfect guide, and Tang Shishi's efforts to exploit it often backfire hilariously.

What Works Well

Many readers, myself included, found Tang Shishi to be a refreshing and unapologetically ambitious character. She's not afraid to be selfish, and her flaws make her feel more human and relatable. The humor is definitely a strong point, stemming from Tang Shishi's eccentric thinking and constant missteps. The male lead, Zhao Chengjun, is a cold and powerful figure who slowly develops a soft spot for Tang Shishi's "dumbness," resulting in a fun and engaging dynamic. I also appreciated the slow-burn romance and the focus on their relationship, even amidst court intrigue and political maneuvering. The translation is well-done, preserving the cultural nuances and humor of the original story.

Areas of Concern

While I enjoyed the novel, there are a few aspects that might not appeal to everyone. Some readers found Tang Shishi's initial pursuit of the original male lead frustrating, especially since he's portrayed as less than ideal. The story also has some potentially triggering content, including the consummation of the relationship under questionable circumstances. Others felt that the female lead became unlikeable when the male lead spoiled her. Additionally, the ending felt rushed for some, and certain plot points involving secondary characters were considered questionable.

Final Verdict

Despite its flaws, "It's Better to be the Empress Dowager" is a worthwhile read if you're looking for a historical romance with a unique protagonist and a good dose of humor. Just be aware of the potential triggers and the somewhat uneven pacing. I'd recommend giving it a try and seeing if Tang Shishi's brand of "dumbassery" charms you as much as it did me.