My Husband With Scholar Syndrome

My Thoughts on My Husband With Scholar Syndrome

My Husband With Scholar Syndrome is a novel that definitely sparked a lot of feelings in its readers, and after diving in, I can see why. It's a story about second chances, learning to love, and navigating the complexities of a relationship with someone who experiences the world differently. While I found elements to enjoy, there were also aspects that gave me pause.

First Impressions

The premise is undeniably sweet: a woman reborn who decides to marry a man with "scholar syndrome" (often used to describe high-functioning autism) who was devoted to her in her past life. The initial chapters drew me in with the promise of a heartwarming romance and the potential for exploring themes of understanding and acceptance.

What Works Well

Many readers, including myself, appreciated the focus on the relationship between the main characters, Mu Xiaoya and Shirakawa. I found their journey of learning to communicate and compromise genuinely touching at times. There's a certain charm in Shirakawa's earnest attempts to express his love, even if his methods are a bit unconventional. The novel shines when it highlights the small, everyday moments of connection and the gradual development of Xiaoya's feelings for him. Some describe the story as pure fluff, a welcome escape with a satisfyingly sweet ending. I also appreciated the focus on family and friendships, a refreshing change from some of the more plot-heavy novels in the genre.

Areas of Concern

However, I have to address the elephant in the room: the portrayal of autism in this novel. Several readers, particularly those with personal experience with ASD, expressed concerns about stereotypes and inaccuracies. Some felt that Shirakawa's characterization leaned too heavily on clichés and presented an unrealistic picture of someone with high-functioning autism, even suggesting that his behavior was more indicative of antisocial personality disorder than autism. The idea that love and affection could "cure" or significantly diminish the challenges associated with autism was also a recurring criticism. While the author may have intended to create a heartwarming story, it's important to acknowledge that these portrayals can be harmful and perpetuate misinformation.

Final Verdict

Overall, My Husband With Scholar Syndrome is a mixed bag. While it offers moments of genuine sweetness and a heartwarming romance, the problematic portrayal of autism and a somewhat rushed ending detract from the overall experience. If you're looking for a light, fluffy read and are willing to overlook the inaccuracies in its depiction of ASD, you might find something to enjoy. However, I would recommend approaching this novel with caution and a critical eye, especially if you have personal experience with autism or mental health conditions.