Like Love But Not

My Thoughts on Like Love But Not

Like Love But Not is definitely a novel that evokes strong reactions, and after diving in, I can see why. It's a blend of romance, drama, and the supernatural, with a heavy dose of angst thrown in for good measure. While some readers found it a deeply moving exploration of love and forgiveness, others were left feeling frustrated by the characters' choices and the handling of sensitive themes.

First Impressions

Going into this, I was immediately intrigued by the premise of a ghost MC haunting his ex-boyfriend. It’s a setup ripe for emotional turmoil and potential for a unique perspective on relationships. The initial chapters definitely delivered on the angst, painting a picture of a deeply flawed relationship and a protagonist grappling with the consequences of his actions.

What Works Well

One aspect that resonated with me was the exploration of the MC's internal struggles. Several readers highlighted the MC's introspective nature as a strength, and I agree. The novel delves into his feelings with a raw honesty, making his journey, however painful, feel authentic. I also appreciated the core message that "life is worth living," particularly in the context of the MC's initial despair. The author tackles heavy themes, and while the execution is debated, the intent to promote hope is clear.

Areas of Concern

However, I also found myself sharing some of the concerns raised by other readers. The portrayal of the ML and the dynamics of their relationship are undeniably problematic. The line between love and abuse becomes blurred, and I can understand why many readers felt that the ML was let off too easily. The quick turnaround in his character after the MC's... departure... felt somewhat jarring and unearned. I also felt that the justification for the ML's actions wasn't sufficient, and that the MC deserved better.

Final Verdict

Like Love But Not is a complex and flawed novel that is sure to stir up strong emotions. While I appreciated the exploration of grief, love, and forgiveness, I ultimately found the problematic relationship dynamics difficult to overlook. It's a story that will likely leave you with more questions than answers, and your enjoyment will likely depend on your tolerance for morally grey characters and potentially triggering content. I'd recommend approaching this one with caution and a willingness to engage with its challenging themes.