To Help You Understand Novel Review

My Thoughts on To Help You Understand

"To Help You Understand" is a web novel that certainly left me with a lot to think about. It's a complex story tackling heavy themes, and while it has its strengths, it also presents some challenges for the reader.

First Impressions

Initially, I was intrigued by the premise. A gender bender plot with mature and psychological elements? It sounded like it had the potential to be a unique and thought-provoking read. Some readers agreed, with a few early readers feeling hooked right away and eager to see the characters navigate their difficult circumstances. However, others quickly found themselves frustrated.

What Works Well

The novel excels in its portrayal of trauma and emotional struggles. The characters, particularly the leads, are deeply flawed and carry significant baggage. This makes their journey of understanding each other, and themselves, a central and compelling aspect of the story. The body-swapping element serves as a catalyst for empathy, forcing them to confront each other's perspectives in a very literal way. Some praised the portrayal of emotions and their consequences, and how both leads learn and grow, and eventually learn to love each other openly. The novel is about healing, forgiveness and striving to understand the emotional turmoil that others go through.

Areas of Concern

Despite its strengths, "To Help You Understand" isn't without its problems. A major point of contention is the communication, or lack thereof, between the main characters. Many found the misunderstandings frustrating, feeling that they could be resolved with simple conversations. This lack of communication, coupled with the abusive behavior of some side characters, led to intense frustration for some readers. I can understand this, as unresolved conflict can become tiresome. Furthermore, some found the male lead's behavior problematic, even after character development, and felt that the female lead's kindness was wasted on him. Some believe the toxic relationship is maddening because the male lead uses his attempts to commit suicide to shackle her to postpone the divorce.

Final Verdict

"To Help You Understand" is a challenging read that explores complex themes with varying degrees of success. While the portrayal of trauma and the initial plot are intriguing, the frustrating communication issues and potentially problematic relationship dynamics may turn some readers off. It's a novel that demands patience and a willingness to grapple with difficult emotions. Whether or not it's worth your time depends on your tolerance for angst and your interest in flawed characters navigating a difficult path toward understanding.